I have realized that while I'm becoming more emotionally stable, I'm not any smarter. My validation skills stink and I still have trouble making a stand for myself. I am a bit better at the last one since I no longer cave I just hesitate.
As you might surmise There was an event. It wasn't R talk this time rather financial talk. She's mad and I lost several chances to validate but I still have to stand up for myself and I'm just not balancing those well.
Good news is that I feel ok overall. I just would rather get along rather than fight with her. There's more but I'm going to let it be. She's going to come over tonight to discuss some financials and we'll see how it goes. I think I need to just be clear.
Last edited by HopefultotheEnd; 11/12/0809:16 PM.
Me:34 W:31 d's 5 & 10 M: 5 years, T: 8, Bomb1 3/8/08,#2:3/28/08 Asked 4 D:4/19/08, discovered PA 5/8/08,W moved out 6/30/08 W pregnant by OM: 2/17/08
