Originally Posted By: AmyC
Texting is the worst way to communicate.
So much is lost in the translation.
I'd limit that for sure.

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I don't think I could ever cleanse my mind of the mental picture of them together.


I guess you'd better start working on that then because if you can't forgive her now you're not going to see restoration - at least not in a lasting form. It's the hardest thing to do, I know. But if you truly want to forgive, you will find the way.



Well, oddly enough again, you'd think texting = bad. For us, 9 of 10 times works well.

If we start off texting, and that goes well, we'll end up on the phone just chit chatting.

But, if we start off on the phone an dthings go south, we'll end up texting and straightening the disagreement out and restore communication.

so once again, we're an oddity. All our friends always said we worked together in mysterious and sometime frightening ways, but we always worked well.

As for the "cleansing the mental image out", once OM is out of the picture and I feel re-assured of it, may become easier. That will be a matter of MC, without question. If and when that happens, the more exposure to her, that may not be so hard, for now, it's pure hell.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11