I just got creeped out by the thought of it. When MIL and I discussed it in 2006 we both were in "fix it" mode where we both thought we knew what my W needed. It backfired on us and caused a lot of resentment for my W. I know now that was not productive bahavior and I don't want to presume that she needs committed.
No offense was taken by me from anyone. All of you guys are friends. I just wanted to steer away from that talk. Besides we all know, especially that she exhibits bizarre behavior and I'll still talk about that.
In conclusion, just so everyone knows; I'm not mad or upset. It's just ME that doesn't want to discuss that subject.