I have never posted to you before but I have followed your sitch for a long time. I have seen you grow so strong (moving out on your own, standing up for you and D4 and becoming vocal with H). What you said about your heart and head make so much sense. My only comment to you is you been through this before - your H had an A years ago, he came back and he did not let you deal with it then, he seems to be doing the same thing again. Will you be able to handle a third one? Until you both deal with this all open and honestly will you always be waiting for the other shoe to drop? I hate how he is always turning it onto you - like this has been all your fault.
Be strong and sometime the head is way smarter than the heart!
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
