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It is amazing what a new color on the walls can do to life yoour spirits..the bedroom is next...I have some ideas for a cottage look..but again..it is still "our" bedroom, even though he's not here..it is very hard for me to just go and redo things..I try to put myself in his place and I know I would not like him redoing "our" home to only is liking.


sue right now it's your bedroom not his...decorate it however you like...lift your spirits!! I did not consult my h one iota about decorating while he was gone...I put up new shades, hung pictures and even moved some furniture around. Did that make him feel like I was moving on without him..or rather doing ok with out him..you betcha...but look what happend...he came home.

LL