My W and D love those Twilight books. Must be a women thing.
About the divorce papers, I am not quite up on all this stuff. You have been served but nothing is signed and you have not gone to mediation correct? So my assumption is it is in limbo for right now until either you or her decide to start moving it forward. And she is just talking seperation for the time being.
If that is true it is a good sign that she is not confident in her decision to get a D. Her being confused is a good thing. My W was confused for a long time but I think she is now moving towards working on our M.
This is a very fragile time for your R so watch what you say and do, she is watching your every move even if you think she is not. Someone once put it as a never ending job interview and after many weeks it will feel that way. Just make sure you find time to do stuff just for yourself that will relive the stress of your sitch.
Lastly something I figured out a while ago. I use to do things expecting something from my W. You need to learn to do stuff just because it is the right thing to do. If you do it expecting something from her it will take away from you action and trust me she knows if you are doing it because you want someting and not because it is the right thing to do. Hope that makes sense.
