I'm decorating and painting in a way that he would definitely approve of, he's a hunter and fisherman as am I and the lower level has his deer heads, fish mounts and so the bedroom is themed along that line. The things I'm doing are keeping him in mind.
I guess I'm just in a spot right now where we're both contemplating what to do, so am trying to enjoy this time to myself. If he does move back then the hard work will have to start. And, he's always done pretty much what he wants to do for the most part.