I just got back from talking with my W. She was remorseful and said she was going to stop all contact with OM, whether it was to late for us or not. She understood how upset I was with her ect. I told her I still not want a D right now.
She went into how OM had no responsibilities and wanted to spend time with her and I wasn't. Then she said that it was better with me because I had always been their for her, even when she was angry or mad. That I always take care of what needs to be done. That I was the only one that she feels she can talk to about anything.
We talked for a couple hours, some about the R some about other stuff. I gave her "His needs her needs" to read. Before I left she wrote a no contact letter and gave it to me to mail.
Onward into the future. I am working nights the next two and I am going over for dinner tomorrow night. We are going shopping this sat. I hope she is serious this time. Only time will tell.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
