Glad to hear you are a happier person. I think we all just need to come to our own terms at our own pace. I am much happier. Almost of my anti-depressants and feeling great.
There is so much life out there that I let slide by and now I am going to play catch up!!
My kids will get over it. They know I did everything in my power to save my marriage.
They have had a hard time accepting that their father starting dating and now that I am, double whammy. They will be fine. I talk with them about things and tell them their opionion means something to me. I will listen to what they have to say. My youngest is already accepting and is almost ready to meet my new special friend. I am leaving it up to them on when they are ready for the next step.
Going out tonight and can't wait. I feel like a 16 year old again. I think what helps is that I already know the guy and he is very nice. I get butterflies in my stomach when I talk to him. Much better than feeling sick and walking on eggshells with the stbx.
Even though I couldn't save my marriage, you are right...I am a success story. I have found myself again.
Thanks for posting!!!! Everyone on here means so much to me.