Gosh Amy, interesting way to look at it... not sure how to take it all... but you said it best.. can't waste engery worrying or wondering what truth there is to it all... pray and let God handle the rest...

hang in there...

Me: 38/H:40
M:7yrs
TG: 10yrs
2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old
Bomb 8/22/08
OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old
Moved out 9/22/08

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