To add to the thought of committing the W; my MIL is SOOOO codependent, she thrives on trying to fix everyone else's misery.
She's getting better and we don't talk about the sitch between the two of us. I learned my lesson 2 years ago on that. The idea from my MIL on committing her D was brought up 2 years ago after the W attempted suicide and subsequently enter an in-patient rehab program.
I see no absolute reason to commit the W. If she's ever been a danger to anyone; it would have been to herself. Right now, I don't even see that.
to conclude, I've never considered committment an option EVER. Certainly not right now.
