Hey BM...to clarify a bit. I can drop by the office anytime I want...in fact I have been going up there and helping out some just to spend time with him because he is working so much. He just feels that if I call him everyday while he is working I am assuming he is doing something wrong and checking up on him. Silly, huh? Come by anytime....just don't call.....DUH? He has agreed to marriage counseling and we plan on starting in a couple of weeks....he says he really wants this to work out, but sometimes his actions don't show me that. I have stopped calling him at work....haven't even gone up there in over a week. I have stopped emailing him everyday and I am being sparse with the ILY's.....I want to know if he will tell me....he has so far. Today I came home to my apartment. I have been staying with him for months now, but I came home today and told him that if he wants me around I need to know that I can't guess anymore on how he really feels....I don't know what will happen. She was with him largely because his mom said....oh you can just ride with Robby and he doesn't buck mom usually. She rules the roost at the office and doesn't like me so I feel it was a way to cause problems and it worked. Anyway....I am gonna go get my kids now and take them swimming....Thanks for all the replies and such. Any more questions and I will answer if I can. email is rrk61970@yahoo.com
