Whew ! After reading that, I dont even trust him, either !
So......if he's innocent, why worry about you dropping by the office when he knows how he's lied to you ?
This sitch is going to be hard for me to be objective about, Workingonit, because I rarely forgive a liar. Almost never, in fact....so my opinion is somewhat tainted.
I can tell you that I dont like the picture you painted, though. Have you tried getting him into counseling?
Something else struck me funny. "Family business".
They ( we) do almost anything to retain control over that baby. Divorces are a threat to any family business.
Forgive me for looking at the possible negatives here, OK ?
-Not much time together, and no contact when you're apart.
-Keeping you away from the office ?
-Lying about little things. And why was she with him in the first place ?
-Divorce still pending....and didnt get put on hold.
( did your atty miss something that's being exploited ?)
I'm sorry sweety, but trust has to be earned in this case.
He should know why you dont trust him,...HE caused it !
Too many secrets to suit me. That's my take.
"Wants to be with you" .....yet the D is going through ?
Pretty contradictory.
From here I'd say maybe going dim or dark might pull him towards you.....but personally, if it were me.....I'd go to C....assuming I could get past the lies...( which I couldnt).
I need more time to think about all this, because my gut reaction isnt conducive to doing you much good right now...so allow me to stew a while.
