Good Point Pup. Maybe sometimes I use this board to vent too much and that gives people the idea that it's all doom and gloom, and it's not.
I can honestly say, except for the week AFTER vacation, the last couple months have been about as normal as they can be, and W seems to be more of her REAL self each day. Maybe the Alien has left the building and will only return for a visit periodically.
Break, Thanks for that. I hadn't thought of it that way, but you're correct. The last couple months I've been the one she's chosen to bit*h to, and that's a good thing. That's what spouses are supposed to do.
Dash, I'll keep posting normal if it helps. I just don't want to get my expectations too high or jinx myself. This is as close to normal as I've felt in going on 2 years. At least I think I remember this as normal.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.