My S, who doesn't talk much about our sitch and doesn't seem too bothered by it most of the time, drew his family picture at school without his dad in it. That's when I decided I had to tell the teacher. Please do tell the teacher.

You don't have to give details. If your W shows today, you can tell the teacher together...that way it's not anything she'll think you are doing behind her back, etc. I believe that kids need all the support they can get...and, by not telling the teacher, you are foregoing that line of support for your S. I'd also tell the daycare workers at D's daycare. They might notice changes/issues even before you do!!!

Just my $0.02!!

Amy

Me 39 H 36
S 7 S 4
T 15 M 12
H out 8/1/08
OW confirmed 8/6/08
D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!