Be prepared for: you are, mentally unstable, pathetic and a loser (cuz she loves him and not you but you still love her), you need deeper therapy, she is sickened by the thought of ever ML again with you, etc etc. She is just warming up!
Last edited by carpenter54; 11/12/0810:57 AM.
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM
So ended a most bizarre convo. I have never hacked - never needed to. Not sure what the purpose of this convo was. Sounded like a baiting game to me as well as a fishing expeditition.
That is exactly what that was....fishing!! Hoping you'd fess up to it.
She doesn't know how you know does she?
MC
She knows I have copies of e-mails from way back. She printed them out and kept a file. As for the current, no she doesn't know.
Not taking the bait.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
Be prepared for: you are, mentally unstable, pathetic and a loser (cuz she loves him and not you but you still love her), you need deeper therapy, she is sickened by the thought of ever ML again with you, etc etc. She is just warming up!
54, I heard those in the summer when I first contacted OMW and then OM. No worries, Teflon Man is rising to the occassion!
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
Thanks for stopping by Yenko. True that every sitch is different, yet so many similarities throughout.
More weird chit tonight. I get back from picking up S13 and go to iron a shirt for the morning. W calls me into the front room.
W: what did you mean by your comment as you left? Me: meant I am dealing in the truth. I am tired of the lies and deceit and simply want to deal with the truth.
W: so what are you going to do about it?
Me: I told you - deal with the truth and only the truth
W: so what does that mean? Are you going to file for D?
Me: no W, I told you that is not what I want and will not do that.
W: ok whatever. Your thought process is the only right one as usual. Do you need to hack my e-mail account to do that?
Me: sorry you feel that way. I have not hacked anything. Just want the truth.
W: I have proof of you hacking it. Whatever.
So ended a most bizarre convo. I have never hacked - never needed to. Not sure what the purpose of this convo was. Sounded like a baiting game to me as well as a fishing expeditition.
Oh well, bed time soo. Think I will lie in my own bed and watch TV!
I'm actually surprised that's all there was to it. Is is possible that OM hasn't told her that you were in contact with his W again? Don't know, but I would have expected a LOT more of the venom....
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
morning LIS I am proud of you!!! you did great! so glad you didnt take the bait, I bet she will forget the worm next time and try the stinkbait lol!!
My H said those mean things to me too, when I confronted him, and many times when he gets caught in lies, I am getting better trying to let them roll off.
so how as your bed? did ya wash the sheets first??
HUGS
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
I'm actually surprised that's all there was to it. Is is possible that OM hasn't told her that you were in contact with his W again? Don't know, but I would have expected a LOT more of the venom....
Possibly, but she may be afraid to. Lost is holding a very strong hand here, and I think she's having a hard time reading it, much less responding to it effectively.
I think she knows about the new exposure. She jut doesn't know what the hell to DO about it right now, so she's fishing and sputtering.
I'll guarantee you this, Lost: YOU are the topic of almost ALL of their conversations right now! Not them, not their "undying love" for each other, nothing much romantic or in any way fun right now. They are no doubt b*tching about YOU right now, and what you are doing and not doing.
Which is a good thing. Affairus interruptus, baby.
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Well, thanks PDT, H4U, 54 and (((BG))). I hope I am doing ok with this. Second guess myself sometime.
Bed felt great BG! She only had one short night in it, so no didn't wash the sheets.
Heard from OMW saying she had got the documents and asked if there were anymore. I said that was it - that was all I had written by him anyway. I did ask her how she was holding up but no reply as of yet.
S13 and I are off tomorrow morning. He is jacked! Me too!
Looking back at last night, she was full of venom at first when I was called a "sick puppy", but later after I left and came back it was almost like she was trying to be civil. She had been on the phone before talking to me the second time and certainly wanted to know what I planned to do to live by the "truth". Oh well, last night is history... tonight may be another story.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
