But also the distance between us now is pretty significant.
And this is what is killing your M~ That empty space ... it feels ugly. There are no words to describe it. I am sorry you find yourself in that space. I used to live there and it is a lonely place indeed. You can be in the same bed laying together and yet neither of you feels any connection and it is as if you are sleeping alone and it actually feels worse than that, cause your Spouse is right there just and arms length away. OUCH~ Anything is posible... dont forget that. I am having a hard time understanding your sitch.... but one thing is certain you both have a lot of pain and resentment. You need to work thru it and heal for this to have any movement. You say she wont work on it? Then you must and you can ..... the only person you can control is you. All my best and have strength ... this will be ONE of the most difficult and rewarding things you ever do. { BTDT } ~Ava
