You amaze me how you manage to stay so positive all of the time! Glad you had a nice weekend in any case.
Also just sent you a reply on FB...
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
Ok so last night I decided that I was not going to contact H and wait to see if he reaches out first....and he texted, just something random, actually replying to the text that I had sent him last week about the taxes...lol. He's a little late...he wanted to know what I had done, I then told him about the new mail over and he wanted me to open it and tell him what it was about.
I don't want to look into anything but we have had conversations after the taxes text from last week and he is just bringing it up again so it kinda makes me wonder if he was just coming up with reasons to reach out. Oh well I'll never know.
We chit chatted briefly then I told him that it was weird that he texted me when he did because I was just thinking about him. He immediatly replied "Bout what miss?", I got nervous and only put "Stuff :P ". Then nothing after. Oh well he did reach out and he did want to know what I was thinking about, it's not like I really gave him anythng to continue the conversation with.
I am off today so I am lounging around until i have to go to the PT job later.
I think you are making progress. Seems like every conversation that you have is light and pleasant. You had mentioned that you used to fight all of the time. Seems like there is none of that now! Your H must be wondering about the changes in you. I would be really surprised if he didn't start coming by more frequently...
Keep up your great PMA; you're an inspiration to everyone!
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
Thank you ITH for the positive thoughts....we were chatting again last night and he asked what I was doing today after work...Hmmmmmm. Seems like he is trying to come by more frequently.
Other than that I am a little overwhelmed....I was offered a another job and have to go Tuesday to discuss $$ and benefits, etc to see if I would accept. The problem is I have another interview tomorrow and 'dream job' interview on Saturday moring...Ahhhhhh!!!! I know, I am not complaining in any way shape or form as many people would love to be in my shoes right now especially in this economy I just feel like this is such a huge decision and I am scared of making the wrong one!!!
Great going on all of the jobs. Must be the Secret!!???
Great sign that your H asked what you would be doing after work. Seems like this is becoming more frequent?
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
Good luck with the job sitch Sep. I've been in that kinda pickle before and always worry about which is the best one or the right one. It is hard. But take the time you need to sort it all out and hopefully the choice will become clear.
I'd just like one interview now! Lol.
As for the H, what did you tell him? Is he coming over? Details please!
LoL. I told H that I did not work job # 2 today so he just said "Mmmmmmm...." I left it last night with just saying to have a good night, sweet dreams and that I hope to hear from him today. So hopefully I will.
I have pushed the job that they already said that they want me to next Tuesday so I can feel out the other interviews before making a decision.
Yes hubby came by today!!! We chatted a bit, he wanted to know about my interviews coming up and then we discussed his sister's Christmas list...lol. We then went to ML and it was quite affectionate. We laughed during and even cuddled abit after. He again initiated the goodbye kiss and hug and texted when he got home.
I know it's little baby steps nut it seems like each time we are tip toeing our way to Stage 2, I am positive that soon we will be hanging out together again.
