Maybe I should be in piecing part 2?

[Hope4us]

Isn't the emotion amazing when everyone wants the same end result?

We're all here because we're hurting, WAS and LBS alike. It's just an amazing place that people who don't know each other from Adam can be so invested in helping each other out.

You guys are all the best. There's one good thing that's come out of this mess. I've rediscovered my faith in the goodness in people.

I consider you all my friends. And I'm a lucky man....

[Molly44]

I was the one that had A and I KNOW 100% FOR SURE that the only way to get over the OM is NC and it is not NC for a week, it is NC forever and it takes a long long time to get over. I would say for me it was a year before my fog lifted and I realised it was my M i wanted. i truely believed that the OM had something soooooooo special. Crap we did.

I did not let go in contact during that year but it got less and less but it hurt and it was hard but it was the right thing to do except now i am all alone! Go figure.

[Hope4us]

Thanks Max. I think I see in my sitch a lot of you and Breakaway and WDID.

You guys all seem to recognize that NC is needed and you make your effort and sometimes you slip, but it doesn't mean you don't recoginze it and then make more of an effort to end contact for ever.

And I see that in my wife.

Of course, maybe I'm a (what's H4H say?) Stoop, but I have to have that faith that she's TRYING because if I don't, then I won't be able to be the H she wants and the H I want to be.

She'll get there.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Isn't the emotion amazing when everyone wants the same end result?

We're all here because we're hurting, WAS and LBS alike. It's just an amazing place that people who don't know each other from Adam can be so invested in helping each other out.

You guys are all the best. There's one good thing that's come out of this mess. I've rediscovered my faith in the goodness in people.

I consider you all my friends. And I'm a lucky man....

Yeah, and me, I got to grope Breakaway during the group hug . . .

[Hope4us]

Man, and I missed it!

[Dash]

Man, and I missed it!

I got it on video.

[Hope4us]

Ok, I've accomplished enough at work today, time to go home. HAHAHAHA......

See ya all later!

[Hope4us]

Hi everyone. Another good, normal night at home last night. W and I both pretty tired. W was at her training class all day and was pretty beat, but we talked for quite a while.

Just a normal night at home.

Shared some interesting IM's at work this morning. W bit*hin about her boss and me bit*hin about the guys who work for me. I told her I was sorry my transfer had put her in this job she doesn't like and she replied that she didn't blame me and it's not like she hates going to work each day. It was just a nice conversation.

I feel weird posting when it's just normal stuff. Maybe I should actually do some work

[Dash]

I feel weird posting when it's just normal stuff. Maybe I should actually do some work

Please keep posting the "normal stuff". It's the "normal stuff" that gives me hope, it's the "normal stuff" that so many of us are trying to get to.

When I read over other people's situations and see how far they've come, I know the "normal stuff" is my ultimate goal.

As Red Green would say, "I'm pullin' for ya."

[breakaway]

That's better than normal...she's bitchin' with you and not with someone else. And you listen. So...great!