I'm actually surprised that's all there was to it. Is is possible that OM hasn't told her that you were in contact with his W again? Don't know, but I would have expected a LOT more of the venom....
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.