I contacted her for the first time in a long time this morning. As you all know, I've been struggling with wanting her to EVEN have a R with the kids. S has parent/teacher conference today and I wasn't even going to remind her. The appt. sheet has been hanging on the refrigerator for a couple of weeks. As I know that she passes through the house and eats from the 'frig; I figured that she should know on her own.
But in my reluctant effort to ensure that I'm not alienating her; I sent her a text reminding her of the appt. this afternoon. She replied that she would try to take a long lunch to attend. So now if she doesn't make it; it was her decision. I can't be accused of trying to keep her out of the loop on important things with the kids.
