Corey, we are all hear for you. We can see that your H's behavior isn't your fault, but we're all thinking clearly. These WA's just don't think this way anymore.
It's VERY hard to detach. I'm there with you. I want to be available for H, but he's also spewed hurtful words to me this week like your H did to you. I too stayed calm and didn't react at all to the words until after we hung up. But I feel that we HAVE to FORCE ourselves to detach from them in order to avoid the mental abuse they feel they have a right to throw on us.
Hang in there sweetheart. I bet all this anger is stemmed from both of them not knowing who's baby this really is.
