Once you decide to really give the gift of yourself to your wife, you will be on your way. It all starts by learning what YOU need to do to make the changes to start turning things around. She will begin to respond to the changes you are making once she sees that they are really happening. You can do this.
Exactly!
The most effective way to change your marriage for the better is to change YOURSELF for the better (and the way you treat your spouse).
-- B.
Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs S25, D23, S13, S10 20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007
