I think that's good ms b. Your outside perspective really helps.

It's hard to not be in husband mode when she needs me, but I need to remember that she's chosen this.

W is now in the hole again, and her landlord hasn't even cashed the rent check yet.

Background on this is natural gas prices have gone way down, but W's check is three months delayed, so it's just starting to hit her. I just need to let her figure it out. She made $300 yesterday somehow, and wants to keep doing that. I really hope she didn't sell the wedding ring, but again I have no control over that.


Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK