Yeah, this is my second time around. Last time I lost the house that I had owned before I got married. It's hard to start over financially after a certain age. Sounds like your situation is a little more complicated than most, tho.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012