Yes, I see what you mean. I frequently remind myself that just 6 months ago I was dying for me/alone time.

I just don't have as many options right now, because of my financial plight.

M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012