first off in the tradition of this forum..I'll have a beer..A landshark to be exact..
if I knew then what I know now after having been through 2 D's...well I may not have gotten married either time..LOL Just kidding..
So are you done?? That's my question for you. Only you know when you are done. I think you'll get different kinds of advice based on whether you are still in it, or done..