light (albeit dim) at the end of the tunnel

[badcompany]

I remember in june when my wife left, she was furious to find out I was talking to her sister and parents about her leaving me. I am sure OM would be furious if he knew. she has told his brother "don't tell your brother we talk. he'll hate me more than he already does"

is it fair to let her talk to him since I did the same thing with her sister ?