question for over here....

wife texts OM's much older brother a couple times every other week. he is much older, married with children of his own. I know there is nothing going on between them ( I have read the texts when she wasn't around ) he is more or less a "i don't know what my brother's problem is" type of support group.

Should I allow her to talk to him ? she has kept her word so far for almost 4 weeks involving no contact with OM. I feel like she should talk to me if something is bothering her, not OM's brother.


M 31 W 26
M 6
S 6 S 3
Separated 6/2008
Back together 10/2008
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