No!!! This is what I don't want! This means you aren't detached at all. I totally understand these feelings, but I guess I don't want you to have them, because it means you will hurt.
There is no way around this. I am human. I love this man and want to be with him. I have hurt every single day for the last 18 months and 24 days. What it means is...that I am human and my heart is still M to that man. And I don't want him to go...
Being detached is to not react to ANY of what he is doing. To not let him or his actions control my life. That is what I am working on daily.
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Other things that I changed for myself, I didn't worry if I was disappointing him.
Exactly
Last edited by theotherhalf; 11/12/0811:39 AM.
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
