My "it's very difficult" was in reply to this: I don't want her turned into a tug-of-war rope either. But I've lost so much else lately because of H's profoundly selfish choices--I don't want to lose my daughter half the time too. And no, I don't think that's best for her.
Hey, we're also going to be in the St. Louis area over Christmas --- if all goes according to plan. D28's H is in the USAF, so we'll be staying on base. What fun!
Anyway, I sure hope your Thanksgiving goes well and that you get to spend it with your D12.
Thinking of ya!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
My "it's very difficult" was in reply to this: I don't want her turned into a tug-of-war rope either. But I've lost so much else lately because of H's profoundly selfish choices--I don't want to lose my daughter half the time too. And no, I don't think that's best for her.
Ah. Yes. This is easily the hardest, most painful part.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
Hey, we're also going to be in the St. Louis area over Christmas --- if all goes according to plan. D28's H is in the USAF, so we'll be staying on base. What fun!
BM, Really? Scott AFB, over in Illinois?
Peace, Dawn
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1
Hey, we're also going to be in the St. Louis area over Christmas --- if all goes according to plan. D28's H is in the USAF, so we'll be staying on base. What fun!
BM, Really? Scott AFB, over on the Illinois side of St. Louis?
Peace, Dawn
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1
Whoops, sorry for the double post--computer was being squirrelly!
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1
Yep! Scott AFB, but visiting people in St. Louis too. Looking forward to it.
Hope Veteran's Day went well for y'all. In Canada it's Remembrance Day, and it has a lot of meaning in our family.
Hope the rest of the week goes well for you, Hmama!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
I love Canada! Remembrance Day--what a nice expression. We spent a week or so in London (Ontario) when D was 3 while H was at a conference. Loved the culture there; also loved the little pie/tart thingies (can't remember what they were called!) Oh--and poutine! Of course, I like all the stuff that's fattening! And I loved driving down the highway for hours, not really sure if I was going the speed limit (!) and seeing no billboards!!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
