TxMom...looked and looked and still can't find you either! I'll keep trying!!!

Saw H at S6's game. He was friendly...not flirty like Saturday. My mom and dad were there. they are so great. 1st time they've seen him since they learned about the A. Dad shook his hand and said "good to see you." Mom hugged him and called him "Honey." She's like that with everybody. I know that had to make him feel better.

We walked to the field together. He helped set up the chairs. We stood together whole game. Our kid's the star of the team...he's a little older than the others and loves the sport, so, he really tries harder than the other kids.

I did circulate a little to talk to other moms, but mostly stood there with H. H talked about work. We talked about my run this weekend. We talked about S6's birthday party. He was kind of grumpy...I teased him about it. He said, "He'd be better if he could get his people at work to do what he needs them to." I don't know if he meant OW or not, but could be trouble in paradise! By the end we were joking and laughing a little.

He walked us to the car again. Hugged the boys and was off.

I'm still being too friendly. But, what can I say??? I guess after I decided it didn't matter what I did until OW was out of the picture, I decided just to be myself. I was fine. Not upset about it...fine really! As long as I'm okay about it, I don't see a problem. If/when OW's out of the picture maybe then I'll try another approach.

He did say at one point that he'd decided how to divide his assets. He said, "So, here's what I'm gonna do. If something happens to me, each of the boys will get 25% of my business assets, and the other will go to...well, you, right now." I said, "Well, did you write that down somewhere." He said, "No, but I'm gonna." I guess he did get worried that if he married her she'd get it all and his boys would be without. Interesting. Still no talk about the settlement or the D. So, we'll see.

Hope everyone else had a good day. I got distracted tonight and didn't get around to check on everyone. I'll do that tomorrow morning!

Love to all!
Amy


Me 39 H 36
S 7 S 4
T 15 M 12
H out 8/1/08
OW confirmed 8/6/08
D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!