Hi MrsJJJ-
There aren't too many former MLCer's that currently post on this board. There have been a couple in recent past that I know of...Happy_Again and Favoriteweirdo.

Here are some links from Happy_Again's posts that really helped me...

[url=Finally free is not where its at ]http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...true#Post972782[/url]
[url=Finally free pt 2]http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...true#Post976523[/url]
[url=Finally free is not where it's at ]http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...true#Post981610[/url]

I am not sure why my links aren't coming out right...just click on the red.

I will try to get some links to Favoriteweirdo's post for you too.

Have you looked at the MLC Resources? There is a lot of good information there too.

Hope this help.