I read your post earlier but didn't reply b/c I just didn't have the right words...I probably still don't.
I think I backed away from filing for D last week b/c I was not ready to fully face the reality of what getting a D will mean. I know that if/when H is out of the house and we are co-parenting instead of co-mingling (not that we mingle anything now! ;)), it will be hard to truly let go b/c somewhere inside it means we are really, truly, done. That is a scary thing for me to think about.
Hope I am not hijacking. I just try to think of how I will feel in your situation, and I am sure I will be 'stuck'. You get married thinking it will last forever. Now the plan has changed. It takes some time to readjust and make a new plan...
Sorry for the ramble. Basically, I am thinking of you......
