thanks Cat. I still will giver the printer and vacum because hey I get new ones and they are both a couple of years old. Pluse it lets me squash her " anger" by just saying OK your right now why are you made again? lol I will start looking to new days. The money thing is so damn hard as it realy sets a line in the sand. It seems dbing and acting as if kind of prohibits saying " Look your being creedy, YOU left YOU get to live by this desision. This is all part of the breaking up process, were I will not be so nice to you because you desided to leave our marrage."