Poor BG is so worked up. Maybe you can calm her. The guy was an insensitive jerk, BG responded to him and off he went on a tirade the cancer, that she wansn't a good person. Just a jerk.

Hey guess what got added to my list of duties today, diagnostic mechanic. I got to clients, van shaking can you drive it? I test drove it, checked for leaks, belts, funny smell, told her what was wrong and how much to fix. What do I do, mom asks. Take it to a mechanic. Guess what the mechanic said, I was right about what was wrong and the cost so he is fixing it. Jack of all trades, master of none.

If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.