It seems to be working! Sometimes....

[addie]

((((Sandy))))
I've been reading your thread. Wow, I can't believe how similar our timelines are. It's also coming up on the one year mark for me that I started to suspect H's EA. He moved out in mid Jan, broke off with OW beginning of May and moved back in with us at the end of May. H and I are now living hundreds of miles apart (more info about this on my own thread) but he still wants us to work things out.
I am feeling all of the same things you are feeling. My H would be very happy to continue on as if nothing had happened but I can't seem to do that. I don't know how to let go of all these negative feelings. I also wonder if we can really put all of this behind us.
Sandy, I can't give you any advice. I just wanted to let you know that I understand what you're going through.