Well, after some months, I actually locked a thread! Here is the Last Thread.
To update: - W and I both have L's and are poised to enter mediation. - W continues A with married OM, no remorse and still spouts garbage about M being impossible and something that society tries to unnaturally impose upon us. - We are all still living in the same house with W in the guest room. - I am moving on (and up) -Still need to have "the talk" with the boys.
Recent events have bouyed my spirits:
I completed my tri last weekend. Had a pretty good race and a wonderful time. The bike and run finishes were absolutely crowded with spectators and since I was one of the first finishers, they were absolutely going nuts, ringing cow bells, cheering, screaming...I felt like I was in the Tour de France coming in on the bike. Can't wait to see the pictures, I'm sure I was grinning from ear to ear!
Also on the positive side is that I overheard W on the phone getting her paperwork in order to get a job. This is so important for the boys to have both of us in a good financial place and I think will eventually help her to move on.
Maybe the best is that fall has arrived in FL and it is freaking beautiful here...and it will stay this way until May...oh yeah!
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread