My H told me he's going to spend Thanksgiving alone. His family lives in FL and CA, we live in IA. My family lives in WI. I was wondering what he was going to do for the holidays. He just told me that he's going to FL for Christmas and he said "In case you were wondering.".
I was at a loss for words and didn't know what to say - there was silence.
Then he said "Maybe you weren't wondering....."
I followed up "of course I was wondering, but I was wondering more about Thanksgiving"
To which he replied that he's going to spend it here alone.
He loves Thanksgiving....
I know I shouldn't feel bad because he has made this choice to leave me and be on his own.
But I do.
At least he is not going to OW's. Not that her family would want him there - they know he is married and I'm sure they wouldn't be thrilled to have their 23 year old daughter dating a married man.
The crazy part of me wonders, "Maybe I should reach out to him and ask him to have Thanksgiving at our house, just me and him".
That would be a 180.....
Or I should really make him think about things - be alone on Thanksgiving.....
M:36 H:36 M 3 Y T 8 Y No kids Bomb 6/30/08 PA I filed 9/29/09 D final 1/22/2010
