Sirprize you have such great advice! I love reading your posts. I get all that you have said. Thank you for that.

What I really need help with is how do I stop myself before we get to self destruction.

For example, as soon as it was out of h's mouth I am not going to give you what I promised I lost it. DB, respect, all of that just went out the door for me.

This would be a 180 for me. What should I do instead, of jumping all over h. I need a tool here. Any suggestions?


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"