Thanks for what everyone has said. Don't worry about the hijacks - discussion is good.
Will get to everyone soon. Just wanted to give a brief update.
After getting back from hockey, W is going with D16 to figure skating. W says as she is going - "I called the hotel in Hawaii and booked another room. There was only a king bed (actually there is also a sofa bed) and it sleeps 4 so I booked another room."
I asked - "why did you do that?"
W: cause we couldn't all fit.
Me: "W, I still have the same question - why did you do that?" referring to the fact we had talked of canceling the trip. No answer.
The shy is getting dark!! Storm brewing!!
BTW, my pillows are back in the bedroom already...
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
BTW, after I called OMW in April; I told the W right away. OMW didn't believe me; but a couple of months later she was telling anyone and everyone about it.
OMW has (i) a copy of the most recent letter from OM to my W that was left at the hotel in another city (end of Oct) and (ii) three e-mails from OM to my W from Jan / Feb this year. OMW believes me.
Unfortunately for her, this is not the first time he has done this to her. Her fav saying when we chatted for 90+ minutes - "unf'king believable".
She sounds pretty cool.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
She probably is, but I don't think OM and W will think so.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
S13 had a homework assignment for religion class (Catholic high school). Here is one of the prayers he wrote:
Please God help me face the problems at home Help my family and my parents Help me gain the strength to talk about my feelings When things go wrong at home, help ease my pain The pain of my sisters And the pain of my parents Help me know what is right and what is wrong Amen
What a kid.
Whoever says K's are not affected can go fly a kite (among other things).
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
