Jay, treating your wife like a friend is a huge start, anything to ease the tension. no r talks, no pursuing. back off, and show her the changes in you. Don't tell her, show her. Don't ask her how your situation is doing. Any talks need to come from your wife. Let her lead.Time is your friend.Pray for guidance.


m-54
w-44
children-4
bomb-sept 21 2007
t-21
m-20yrs
bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023