Hi Jay Sorry to see you here, but you will find lots of good advices and supports from folks here. Your DBing is working for you in a positive direction. You don't have to ask her "how are we doing?". She will show you with her action, like that hug. Don't even say anything about your R or your changes unless your W brings it up first. Please be patient and keep working on yourself. I think try treating your W as a good friend should be a good starting point. Keep on DBing...you can do this.
NW626
Me:33 STBXW:38 S:3 It's not whether you win or lose, it's how you fight the fight....!!