I think a lot of it has to do with their blow up. He is mad and it is so much easier to let it go on you because for some strange reason he thinks you are going to stick around.

Let him be the baby. Don't fall into the trap of it all. She is probably becoming supermega troll with overdue and terribly painful trollet. He, I will guess, is going to get worse before he gets better.

Corey, let him feel it. Let him feel all of it. I know that is painful and difficult for you but you can't save him, from this or any other mess he chooses to create. Drop the rope hon and throw it as far as you can. Picture this in your head as many times as it takes for you to really feel it being gone.

hugs, kat


Me-53(and learning!)
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Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory