There are risks with the new job opportunity. To mention a few:
  • if you leave within 4 years, there is a huge monetary sum that you could be pursued for
  • my L says I may lose time with my kids (job is in Manhattan, 1 hour by train into the city and a period of training out of state)
  • although I would lose getting called out of the house at night, have most weekends off, holidays off, bigger paycheck...I'd be up at 4:30-5am M-F and virtually never be able to do those mundane things during the day that sometimes arise and one could squeeze off

I am seeking some fresh insight with a new CPA in Manhattan on Thursday. I think...this may be a wash. Both L's (biz L's) don't want me to sign based on the monetary restrictive covenant.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;