My "it's very difficult" was in reply to this: I don't want her turned into a tug-of-war rope either. But I've lost so much else lately because of H's profoundly selfish choices--I don't want to lose my daughter half the time too. And no, I don't think that's best for her.
Ah. Yes. This is easily the hardest, most painful part.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
