Thanks Snodderly: My lawyer contacted me today. I will meet with her next week. She told me that some of the things I am asking for are quite reasonable. I am hoping that we won't have to go to court and we will resolve the house issue.
Also, she emailed h's lawyer and told him that he will be removed from my insurance effective Feb. 1. This will hit him hard. I think he thinks i will be his doormat forever.
Anyway, was at work when h called. He was on his way to see d13 and bought some chicken on sale for us. He wanted to know if he should leave out or freeze. Bizarre. Is this guilt? He obviously didn't hear about the insurance yet.