Can't I Take Away All This Pain

[Sugar and Spice]

Well things are defiately weird right now. H and the Troll got into it about something yesterday afternoon and so he forwarded nme one of her texts and was asking my opinion on it. Anytime she gets pissed, she starts trying to make him feel guilty about asking for a paternity test. Anyway, I replied with my opinion (very nicely I might add) and didn't hear back from him. No big deal.

I called him on the way home to let him know that DD was going to be at MIL's house and to ask him a question about his car. No answer, left a VM. DS and I drop off DD at MILs and go out to the mall, he calls his dad and he is at the cardroom (SHOCK!!!) At approx. 9:15 I call to tell DD goodnight and she is really down and I ask why and she hadn't heard from her Dad yet, so I called him and he answered and said he was just about to call her and he was going to call DS back in a few minutes. (I had txtd him to remind him that she was going to be a MILs). So I hear nothing. I went outside to talk to a friend and when I got back inside, he had called, so I called him back and got no answer. A little later he calls me and the first thing out of his mouth is some BS about how I couldn't be bothered to pick up when he called me earlier and he was being a real jerk, so I interrupted and said pretty matter of factly that I had called him numerous times over the course of the evening and he had not been able to answer me either. He then tells me that he is going to let me go and I said ok and hung up. A few minutes later I get a txt from him "F**$ You". So later I replied letting him know there was a box here for him from his work and didn't mention the text.

He called today, with the same nasty attitude and I'm not sure what the desired response is supposed to be, but me acting "as If" is just making it worse. I actually questioned him a little bit ago about what the problem was and he sees it as me being ugly to him...so be it.

I'm not sure what the problem is, but am I crazy to think its not me? I suspect the Troll is mad about Vegas, that baby is now overdue and he just got paid on Friday and is broke for all intents and purposes and doesn't get paid again until the 25th. There is a fee of $55.00 for each player and when I mentioned it needed to be turned in tomorrow night, he got ugly and said, "Well you can pay that." I told him I needed to pay for DS's medicine and his reply was, "So?" "I'm paying for the Vegas trip...I don't have $55.00 to just hand out." I know I shouldn't have said another word, but my comment was, "I'm just not going to say anything then." and he got all mad and said I was being a C*&t (yep, you heard it right) and I asked why he felt that way and he said he had to go and hung up. And so now its my fault and I'm the antichrist because I said I wasn't going to say anything. Why do I feel like I'm the crazy one? I know I didn't do anything and I never raised my voice or anything.... Any insight would be helpful as I'm really confused about this. Prior to their blow up yesterday, we were actually getting along really well, too.