omg hope!!!! for real there is a jerk off on K's good post on newcomers!!! she posted a good topic and he omg, i am so mad, go read it, really, he is first in line to the ow my bff's have!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Hey Hope, glad lunch was good! I say screw the closet and just go shopping! It will still be there another day.
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You and I think alike MT!!! Good thing we don't live any closer! We'd be driving super-fast cars, in the bar together on Tuesday, Taco nights and shopping all weekend till the football game! sigh....girlfriend heaven.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
hey i love you namesake and my friends here, today a jerk off said our stress caused our cancer. i am so mad, i just dont know anymore.
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Hey Hope, I am all over that! Yeah we could cause some major damage in so many ways! Hope you have a great night! H was here, but off for his Tacos! So I am doing homework.
Talked to BG earlier, but I wasn't much help. She needs your wise words!! You always know what to say!
Poor BG is so worked up. Maybe you can calm her. The guy was an insensitive jerk, BG responded to him and off he went on a tirade the cancer, that she wansn't a good person. Just a jerk.
Hey guess what got added to my list of duties today, diagnostic mechanic. I got to clients, van shaking can you drive it? I test drove it, checked for leaks, belts, funny smell, told her what was wrong and how much to fix. What do I do, mom asks. Take it to a mechanic. Guess what the mechanic said, I was right about what was wrong and the cost so he is fixing it. Jack of all trades, master of none.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
You are funny Kel. You master everything that you take on. Don't sell yourself short. If you weren't master at what you do, that Mom would not have trusted you enough to even listen. We can't get down on ourselves because our H's don't sing our praises right now.
Well, I see that lots went on last night. My night was calm, but H does not want me on the computer while he is around. Probably when he is not around either, but he can't control that. I think it's kind of good in a way, although it is his own behavior that has caused him to have some doubt of me, it does show me that he is at least working towards a point now where he cares. Anyway, I read what that Brandon said to BG, and I read what he wrote on Kel's other thread that started the whole ruckus.
Then I went back to his beginning and read his first post and the first weeks of this thread. I think that the guy is in a whole lot of pain, and has become very bitter. His writings started out pretty normal, but somewhere along the line you could see that he became angry. We all process things that happen to us in different ways. Some people are a whole lot better with their words than others. Some people are equiped with and better able to handle tough things that come along.
I agree that he is an insensitive jerk, it looks like he has a history of insensitive remarks. He's not worth getting upset about. His information is not correct. Differend types of cancers are caused by different things. Most of them are chemical or hormonal based. Stress does not make it any better, but it is not the primary cause. I've had the best docs at Breslin. I'd love to see them take him on.
We all know that BG is a wonderful person. Mr. butt head is out numbered.
I'll look her up and give her a big verbal hug!
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
Good cuz she needs it. He really touched a nerve. I was thinking about checking his thread out cuz I know most people get to that place for some reason. Actually like I said his comment that started it wasn't really that bad, but then she got upset and the personal attacks just weren't right.
Reading what he wrote, kinda reminded me of MIL. That is where she is/was and the things she wrote and said to all of her family for a while were really horrendous. Still angry with her but I do understand that she was in a really bad bad place.
Hope-thanks for the mastering comment. I actually figured that out myself last night. It's on here somewhere. I think in my newcomers patience thread. Maybe it was a pm on the alt. I don't know. Just realized last night that I know so much and do so much (lots of hidden talents you guys don't know about) but I was so busy these last year being a mom that i wasnt' being a good wife. That didn't cause the MLC, but I don't think it helped either. So I need to refocuse myself in that area and learn what counts to him, not what I think counts.
Sounds like you are doing a little of that too. Yes your H is learning, and yes he is projecting, but if the computer bothers him cuz it maybe takes your attention from him, could be a compromise you can make. I'm trying to do that too. He is projecting but he is also telling you what he needs indirectly. That is what this week is about.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
He is projecting but he is also telling you what he needs indirectly. That is what this week is about.
WCW, Thanks!! You are so right. I don't know why I didn't see that before! As always I appreciate your insight. I read what you wrote twice before it hit me.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
