To be honest, I know I will most likely have to file B. The L said the last thing he wants to see is me struggling to keep it all together and losing my house in the process. The next biggest point is that for the most part ex would be out of my hair financially. Yes he would still be paying me but he wouldn't be able to push my buttons because of it. I wouldn't be sweating wether I would be able to pay a bill because he may or may not pay me.
This is not what I initially was hoping for and it is NOT a done deal but it just looks like the way I will need to go. I am sorry if this is a let down for any of you that know me but I want to keep things as stable for my kids as possible. A Mom with a lot less stress might be nice.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory